It is a scenario that matrimonial lawyers see more often than you would think. After months of negotiation, separation, and emotional exhaustion, you and your spouse finally sign a joint petition for a Mutual Consent Divorce. You cross the first hurdle (the First Motion), wait out the mandatory six-month cooling-off period, and just as you are about to cross the finish line, your spouse fails to show up for the Second Motion—or formally withdraws their consent.
To make matters worse, they offer no explanation, no reasoning, and no alternative path forward.
Are you back to square one? Will you be stuck in legal limbo? Are you still entitled to a divorce?
The short answer is no, you will not automatically be granted a mutual divorce, but yes, you absolutely still have a path to freedom.
The Right to Withdraw Consent is Powerful, But Not Absolute
Under Indian law (such as Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955), the bedrock of a mutual consent divorce is that the consent must be continuous and active right up until the judge signs the final decree. The Supreme Court established long ago (Sureshta Devi v. Om Prakash) that either spouse can unilaterally withdraw their consent at any time during the 18-month window.
However, recent landmark rulings have drawn a sharp line to prevent this right from being used as a tool for harassment.
The “Settlement” Game-Changer
In a highly significant judgment (Dhananjay Rathi v. Ruchika Rathi), the Supreme Court ruled that if both spouses entered into a comprehensive, final settlement agreement (via mediation or court-monitored settlement) and started acting on it, a spouse cannot simply back out without a valid legal reason.
If your spouse received a financial payout, took custody of certain assets, or had criminal complaints quashed based on your mutual agreement, they cannot suddenly shout “I withdraw!” without a justified claim of fraud or coercion. In such egregious cases, the court may invoke extraordinary powers to dissolve the marriage anyway or penalize the backing-out party.
If There Is No Settled Agreement: What Are Your Options?
If no major assets were exchanged and your spouse simply had a change of heart (or is using silence as a weapon), the Mutual Consent petition effectively dies. The court cannot force them to say “yes.”
If you find yourself in this situation, your legal strategy must pivot immediately. You have two primary paths forward:
Path A: Convert to a Contested Divorce on Grounds of “Cruelty”
If your spouse withdraws consent unjustifiably and without rhyme or reason, their conduct itself can be legally categorized as Mental Cruelty.
Numerous High Courts (and reinforced by the Supreme Court in Ritu Sethi v. Vivek Sethi) have observed that leading a spouse to believe a painful chapter is ending, only to abruptly snatch away that resolution to string them along or extort money, causes immense mental agony. You can file a fresh petition for a contested divorce under Section 13(1)(ia) using this arbitrary withdrawal as part of your evidence of cruelty.
Path B: The “Irretrievable Breakdown” Route
If you have been living separately for a prolonged period, have zero shared assets or ties left, and the marriage is entirely dead except on paper, the courts increasingly view the relationship as a legal fiction. While “Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage” is not a written statutory ground under the Hindu Marriage Act yet, higher judiciary courts frequently dissolve such dead marriages to do complete justice.
Summary Checklist for the Left-Behind Spouse
| If Your Spouse Backs Out… | Your Immediate Legal Move |
| …and they already took alimony/assets | File a petition to enforce the settlement or seek court intervention for malicious withdrawal. |
| …and they provide zero reasons or terms | Issue a legal notice, withdraw the mutual petition, and file for a Contested Divorce on grounds of Cruelty. |
| …and they refuse to communicate entirely | Keep strict records of their absence in court; use their non-cooperation as primary evidence of desertion or mental agony. |
The Takeaway: Your spouse has the right to change their mind, but they do not have the right to hold your life hostage. If they withdraw without cause, it changes how you get your divorce—but it does not change the fact that you will eventually get it. Talk to your family lawyer about transforming their unreasonableness into your primary legal advantage.
Disclaimer: This summary is for informational purposes and does not constitute formal legal advice. The interpretation of these grounds is highly dependent on judicial precedent and the specific facts of your case. Always consult with a qualified advocate regarding the strategy for your petition.
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